Profil ocean1195: a lifetime of waiting...

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Jag kan tala Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som I started here looking for some extraordinary sex. I have opened up (albeit ...a bit late) But...bottom-line NOT looking for a relationship. Just wanting to fuck
Then – I started communicating with a few women. The communications were not sexual. (Some of the initial contacts were very sexual – but they were looking for generous men. That was more of what I was expecting.)
However – the more I spoke with a couple of women here, the more admiration I began to have for each of them. I am still not clear that I have the kind of courage it takes to create a full transformation. And I am not talking sexual – I am talking about living into a vision of yourself. It became clear how extraordinary it was for, at least one of these new friendships, she is a person who had this immense courage to live into massive and complete vision/transformation. I began to admire the courage, and in many ways envy that commitment. I have taken many brave steps in my life – but none so completely. In both of these new friends it is a spiritually based transformation.
As a result, I find myself opening up in ways I did not expect to happen.

This whole experience has turned head my around. I am very clear that I could be very happy with the right woman. This ‘non-traditional’ male –female relationship was not on my radar, nor thinkable in the past. I was unaware of the attraction which is now very alive. So... I am interested in finding a friend/mate. who is more interested in how she will be treated, respected, loved – than how old I am …damn I am 60. This was not in my playbook. But…on the other hand…at 60, I intend to live more by what I know I want than what will work in the view of others.
As to what I'm looking for – I love the tender, more feminine qualities in a woman. Women, some women have this ability to welcome a man in… In the past I have been made to feel more whole by this accepting, loving and often nurturing qualities in a partner (woman). I have seen this very clearly and profoundly in at least one remarkable woman on this site. I am a very open, passionate man...I am told I am kind, generous, funny ...AND… I can also be very intense.
I like to explore myself and others, spiritually and emotionally. I like art, nature, dogs, meditation and prayer, beaches, warm climates – Brazil, Costa Rica, St. John. I like National Public Radio, Gershwin, Stanley Turrentine, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Nickelback, Stones, Spinners, everything but Heavy Metal and Rap…etc. like to dance, ballroom in particular (though I am not very good at it – I have not had the right partner).

Through some very challenging times – I believe I have learned how to be an authentic friend, a lover and a support person. I have always been single. Never married no kids. And that is because I didn't really know how to be a friend in the past. Through illness and death I have been encouraged /forced to look at my shortcomings in this area.
I believe, you have to be a friend to be a lover. That took me a long time to figure out – okay so I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.

I grew up on the streets of Boston. Southie. (That's kind of an oxymoron – if you know Southie – to think I am pursuing a relationship with a pre-op TS or postop. Southie is a remarkably narrow-minded and prejudice pop. )
I have lost my toughness/arrogance (thank God) but not my bad boy. I can be an old-school gentleman; opening doors, acknowledging a new color lipstick, a change in dress, publicly demonstrating my caring and respect…and a slut in the bedroom.

Maybe it is important to know ... I am in Gilford NH about 2 out of every 5 weeks. In Hingham Ma the other 3.
Stjärntecken Tvillingarna

Utseende & situation Hur ser din situation för närvarande? Beskriv ditt utseende.

Min kroppstyp är Några extra kilon
Min längd är 168 cm
Mina ögon är Bruna
Min etnicitet är Blandad etnicitet
Mitt civilstånd är Aldrig varit gift
Jag har barn Nej
Min bästa kroppsdel är Händer
Mitt hår är Gråsprängt
Jag har en eller flera av dessa Hund
Villig att flytta Nej

Status Vad gör du?

Min utbildningsnivå är Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är Egen-företagare
Min specialitet är Försäljning / Marknad
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år Mellan 750 000 och en miljon kronor
Jag bor Med rumskompisar
Hemma Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare Ja - feströker
Jag dricker Nej

Personlighet Hur beter du dig? Vilken smak har du?

I skolan var jag Medelmåttan
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är Komiker, Uppmärksam, Utåtriktad
Mina intressen och hobbies är Datorer, Matlagning, Dansa, Motion, Lärande, Filmer, Religion/Spiritualitet, Teater
Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att I am open...dinner...maybe some music or a show..
Jag har alltid velat prova don't start me on this...too broad a question..not much I haven't done..and what I want to try is too vulnerable to just put out there...
Mina vänner tycker att jag är Vänlig, Oanständig

Åsikter Livsåskådning.

Min religion är Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan En gång i månaden
Mitt mål i livet är live peacefully...live well...serve the friends and family i love
2nd...make money...live in (or have a second home in the Caribbean or South America

Smak Vad tycker du om?

På TV tittar jag alltid på Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Drama, Filmer
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid Action
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på Country, Dansband, Jazz, Soul, Dammsugarljud
När jag läser föredrar jag följande: Handel, Mystery, Filiosofi, Poesi, Religiös
Det jag tycker är kul är Symphony, a musical, thai food, ball room dancing, Berkeley Performance Center
Swimming, the gym, a movie at home and cooking for someone I care for

Letar efter Vad söker du hos din själsfrände?

Vad tycker du är attraktivt? Snygga drag, Intelligens, Känslighet, Spontanitet, Omtänksamhet
Vilken form av förhållande söker du? Vän, Dejt, Intimt, Spelar ingen roll, Hängivenhet