Profil ocean1195: a lifetime of waiting...

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Jeg taler Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som I started here looking for some extraordinary sex. I have opened up (albeit ...a bit late) But...bottom-line NOT looking for a relationship. Just wanting to fuck
Then – I started communicating with a few women. The communications were not sexual. (Some of the initial contacts were very sexual – but they were looking for generous men. That was more of what I was expecting.)
However – the more I spoke with a couple of women here, the more admiration I began to have for each of them. I am still not clear that I have the kind of courage it takes to create a full transformation. And I am not talking sexual – I am talking about living into a vision of yourself. It became clear how extraordinary it was for, at least one of these new friendships, she is a person who had this immense courage to live into massive and complete vision/transformation. I began to admire the courage, and in many ways envy that commitment. I have taken many brave steps in my life – but none so completely. In both of these new friends it is a spiritually based transformation.
As a result, I find myself opening up in ways I did not expect to happen.

This whole experience has turned head my around. I am very clear that I could be very happy with the right woman. This ‘non-traditional’ male –female relationship was not on my radar, nor thinkable in the past. I was unaware of the attraction which is now very alive. So... I am interested in finding a friend/mate. who is more interested in how she will be treated, respected, loved – than how old I am …damn I am 60. This was not in my playbook. But…on the other hand…at 60, I intend to live more by what I know I want than what will work in the view of others.
As to what I'm looking for – I love the tender, more feminine qualities in a woman. Women, some women have this ability to welcome a man in… In the past I have been made to feel more whole by this accepting, loving and often nurturing qualities in a partner (woman). I have seen this very clearly and profoundly in at least one remarkable woman on this site. I am a very open, passionate man...I am told I am kind, generous, funny ...AND… I can also be very intense.
I like to explore myself and others, spiritually and emotionally. I like art, nature, dogs, meditation and prayer, beaches, warm climates – Brazil, Costa Rica, St. John. I like National Public Radio, Gershwin, Stanley Turrentine, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Nickelback, Stones, Spinners, everything but Heavy Metal and Rap…etc. like to dance, ballroom in particular (though I am not very good at it – I have not had the right partner).

Through some very challenging times – I believe I have learned how to be an authentic friend, a lover and a support person. I have always been single. Never married no kids. And that is because I didn't really know how to be a friend in the past. Through illness and death I have been encouraged /forced to look at my shortcomings in this area.
I believe, you have to be a friend to be a lover. That took me a long time to figure out – okay so I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.

I grew up on the streets of Boston. Southie. (That's kind of an oxymoron – if you know Southie – to think I am pursuing a relationship with a pre-op TS or postop. Southie is a remarkably narrow-minded and prejudice pop. )
I have lost my toughness/arrogance (thank God) but not my bad boy. I can be an old-school gentleman; opening doors, acknowledging a new color lipstick, a change in dress, publicly demonstrating my caring and respect…and a slut in the bedroom.

Maybe it is important to know ... I am in Gilford NH about 2 out of every 5 weeks. In Hingham Ma the other 3.
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Min kropstype er Et par ekstra kilo
Min højde er 168 cm
Mine øjne er Brun
Min etnicitet er Blandet etnicitet
Min civilstand er Aldrig gift
Jeg har børn Nej
Mit bedste karaktertræk er Hænder
Mit hår er Salt og peber
Jeg har en eller flere af disse Hund
Villig til at flytte Nej

Status Hvad laver du?

Mit uddannelsesniveau er Universitetsuddannet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er Selvstændig
Mit speciale er Salg / marketing
Jeg tjener så meget på et år Fra $75.000USD til $99.999USD
Jeg bor Med værelseskammerat(er)
Hjemme Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger Ja - til fester
Jeg drikker Nej

Personlighed Hvordan handler du? Hvilken smag har du?

I gymnasiet var jeg Gennemsnitlig
Min sociale opførsel er Komisk, Observerende, Uadvendt
Mine interesser og hobbier er Computer, Madlavning, Dans, Motion, Læring, Film, Religion / Spiritualitet, Teater
En ideel første date ville være I am open...dinner...maybe some music or a show..
Jeg har altid villet prøve don't start me on this...too broad a question..not much I haven't done..and what I want to try is too vulnerable to just put out there...
Mine venner beskriver mig som Venlig, Fræk

Synspunkter Syn på livet.

Min religion er Spirituel, men ikke religiøs
Jeg deltager i tjenester En gang i måneden
Mit mål i livet er live peacefully...live well...serve the friends and family i love
2nd...make money...live in (or have a second home in the Caribbean or South America

Smag Hvad kan du lide?

I tv ser jeg altid Nyheder, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Film
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en Handling
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til Land, Dance, Jazz, Soul, Støvsugerlyde
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid Business, Mystik, Filosofi, Poesi, Religiøs
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er Symphony, a musical, thai food, ball room dancing, Berkeley Performance Center
Swimming, the gym, a movie at home and cooking for someone I care for

Leder efter Hvad søger du?

Hvad finder du attraktivt? Flot udseende, Intelligens, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter? Ven, Dato, Intim, Lige meget, Forpligtet