Waking the shadow!
Age 43 From Lacey, Washington Online Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A TS/TV/TG
Basic Information
Tell us a bit about yourself.
- I Can Speak English
- I Would Describe Myself As
What makes me, me? Well let me start with who I am not anymore, but once was....
Who I am not: I am not separation. Separation is only an illusion.
Separation from the God Source.
Separation from each other.
And separation from aspects of our self.
I am not secrecy. Withholding information from my partner & from myself.
With secrecy, my partner never gets to know who I truly am. Keeps me separated from the greater portion of myself.
I am not conditional love. I will love you, only so long as you fulfill my needs and expectations. I will withdraw my love, if you do not satisfy me.
I am not Expectation. I want, expect, and try to get my partner to fulfill my expectations and needs. I use my partner to satisfy my needs.
I am not manipulation. I use obvious or hidden manipulation so that my needs will be met, and so that I can remain protected from my own fears. I only see my partner as who I need them to be, not who they really are.
I am not dependency. I depend on and need someone
outside of myself in order to be happy.
Now I will introduce you to who I am!! :D
I am Integration, and reintegration. Everything and everyone are really all connected.
I am honesty, and openness. Total honesty with my partner.
With honesty, my partner gets to know who I truly am. Honesty means being 100% who I truly am.
I do not withhold a comment or information just to avoid hurting my partner, or to control the relationship.
I can never really know or predict what will hurt another or how they will react to my honesty.
Therefore, I should stop assuming responsibility for the other person's emotions, growth, & reactions to my honest non-manipulative communications.
I am no expectations. I trust and have no expectations from my partner.
I enjoy my partner, but without expectations.
I am allowingness. I allow my partner to be who they need to be. Only then can I see who they truly are.
I am absolute trust. I trust that everything that occurs is for my highest good. Therefore, I have no desire or need to control my partner.
And most importantly I am unconditional love. Even if you don't fulfill my needs and expectations,
I will still love you. I love you for who you are without trying to change you.
If this sounds interesting, shoot me a message. I always love meeting new people! :) no conditions, or judgement here, I'm an open book.
Now it's your turn, what makes you, YOU? :)
Love n light - Sign Sagittarius
Appearance & Situation
What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.
- My Body Type Is Athletic
- My Height Is 6' 0 (1.83 m)
- My Eyes Are Blue
- My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
- My Marital Situation Is Single
- I Have Kids No
- I Want Kids Not Sure
- My Best Feature Is Eyes
- Body Art Visible Tattoo
- My Hair Is Dark Blonde
- I Have One Or More Of These No pets
- Willing To Relocate Yes
Status
What do you do?
- My Education Level Is High School Diploma
- My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
- My Speciality Is Food / Catering
- My Job Title Is asst. manager
- I Make This Much In A Year $30,000USD To $44,999USD
- I Live With Roomate(s)
- At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
- I'm A Smoker No
- I Drink Yes - Socially
Personality
How do you act? What are your tastes?
- Back In High School, I Was A Class Clown
- My Social Behavior Is Friendly, Flirtatious, Dark
- My Interest And Hobbies Are Sports, Music, Movies, Internet, Family, Cooking, Computers
- My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino
- An Ideal First Date Would Be dinner and movie
- I've Always Wanted To Try Whatever feels right
- My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
Views on life.
- My Religion Is Agnostic
- I Attend Services Never
- My Political Views Are I Don't Like Politics
- My Goal In Life Is happiness
- My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy
Taste
What do you like?
- On Tv, I Always Watch Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports
- When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Horror
- When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Metal, Blues
- When I Read, I Always Read Comic, Computers, History, Horror, Mystery
- My Idea Of Fun Is Being spontaneous and going with whatever you feel screw plans life's 2 short.
Looking for
What are you looking for in your soulmate?
- What Do You Find Attractive? Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Spontaneity
- What Do You Look For? No real preferences, just be you, and that's good enough for me! :D
- What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date
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